About Me

Jared and I have been married two years now. In November we will have been together 9 years. Crazy to think. We definitely grew up together and I think that's what makes us work so well. We had a daughter in June and we're not sure why we didn't do so sooner. We love her with our life. She is the best thing that's ever happened to us. I love having my own family. We live in Fayetteville and LOVE IT. We are always back and forth on whether or not we'll move back to Alma. I see us back down there one day but I see our life always being in NWA. If only we could pack our families up and move them up here!

Monday, February 11, 2013

**Our Ray of Sunshine**

I know I'm WAY behind on a Ruby post. I was going to go look at exactly how far behind I am but then I knew I'd be embarrassed. There is just SO MUCH to tell about our sweet growing girl I don't even know where to start.

First of all, we say over and over about how blessed we are to have such a healthy child. Not only is she healthy but she's so happy.

Measurements: not sure on exact numbers. I got on the scale with her and she was 25 lbs.. She's still wearing 18 month clothes but also some 24m/2T. I think she's ready for size 5 diapers but we still have quite a few size 4's so we'll continue those for a while. She's tall for sure.

What she loves: well there's a lot so I'm sure I'll forget some stuff. Me :), her daddy, the park, all of her cousins (specifically Madi and Tucker for some reason), all of her grandparents. Tea, yes, sweet tea. She asks for it every night for dinner. She runs to the refrigerator and says "tea tea??". If I have some made I always have a glass with her too. She also loves milk and water and juice but she mainly drinks milk and water and tea. She loves yogurt, strolls in her wagon, playing "get the ball before Mommy", dancing while Daddy plays the guitar, helping me with laundry and unloading the dishwasher, OUTSIDE-every chance we get, Ms. Kathy, face timing, Sophia Grace and Rosie (look them up, she's obsessed), READING-she could sit with her books all day every day, her babies, my make up, bath time, picking out her jammies and getting her wash cloth out of the linen closet for bath time, "swimming" in her bath, her Aunt Tippy, Beth and Aunt B, puppies, CATS, Jared calls her the "the crazy cat lady" because she completely freaks out when she sees a cat, and going places. She loves to be in public.

Eating: well it's hit or miss. If its something she loves she will eat a lot of it. Her favorites are anything that has pasta, fruit, tons of fruit, marshmallows, raisins, yogurt as I said before, chips when I let her have them (I worry about choking, she mainly eats Pringles), bologna, cheese, black olives, onions, tomatoes, corn, green beans, avocado and pickles. I love trying new things too because she's so open to it. I think she gets that from her dad. It's taken him 10 years to get me to eat half the stuff I just named off that she eats. I constantly worry when she doesn't eat a lot but I think that's pretty normal. One day she'll eat two plates of dinner/lunch and the next she will barely eat two bites. Last night I had to bribe her "3 more bites of spaghetti" because she was yelling for a "nana" (banana). She understands it too. Not the "3" part but she'll take another bite then yell for her nana. I just tell myself if she's hungry she'll eat.

Talking: she's forming complete sentences so I'd say she's talking! Yesterday she asked me "where's my ball?". Clear as day. She says a lot of words. I don't remember if I blogged about this but the last time we were at the doctor she asked how many words she is saying and I told Dr. Averitts about 50ish words. She acted stunned so I second guessed myself, came home and told Jared who thought I was crazy too. So we started writing them down. That was back in December. We exceeded 50 words and I know for sure she says way more than that now. So I won't type them all out. All I know is it is unbelievable to hear her speak words. We love her voice so much. We say it all the time. So sweet.

She doesn't like: bed time. She runs from me when I tell her it's time to brush her teeth every night. Or she'll run to Jared and cuddle up to him like he's going to save her. Bows. Her hair is getting so long and crazy but she refuses to let me fix it. I have decided to choose my battles with her and fixing her hair (or not) will not be one of them. So when you see pictures of her with wild hair you know why. :) She doesn't like for me to open or really do anything for her. She wants to do it all. Open her yogurt, her cheese, clean up her mess, ETC.. Miss Independent.

Potty Training: if she's not ready she's very close to it. She likes to take her diaper off every chance she gets. She tells me when it needs changed and she says "YUCK!". I've been trying to sit her on the potty for about 10 minutes a day. Nothing has happened. She goes into my closet anytime she has to #2. Like a dead sprint into our closet. And if I peek in there at her she gets mad at me. It's so funny. So we just don't bother her.

Randoms: she's sleeping great. She has actually been sleeping in later. Sometimes I wake up when she's up around 5ish whining. I change her diaper and that makes her sleep a few more hours. She goes right back down. It makes me think she's ready for potty training even more. She naps anywhere from 1-4. She goes to sleep at around 7:30. Sometimes 8:00 if I let her. Biting. I know it's not good and I'd never tell on her and post this negativity in public if this wasn't a way for me to document it and remember. I hate it. We don't really know what to do because she doesn't do it here. She bit the little girl Shelby at school last week, and left marks. Kathy thinks she took a toy from Ruby. She put her in time out. When Jared took her back to school that next time he told her "no biting today Ruby you be nice". And she went straight to Shelby and hugged her. Poor babies. All of them.

I think that is it. We've been venturing out to new things and she's loving it. Last week it was to the library for baby bookworms and some playing on a computer she's allowed on. The week before it was Boingo Bounce.

She is our ray of sunshine. She's our best little friend. I don't know what we'd do without her. THANK GOD for her.

Here are some picture's to enjoy. Have a great week!



Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Prayers

Please pray for my Mom and especially my grandpa. She is really struggling not being able to be with him at all times. She feels like is alone and confused. My heart hurts more than ever. He just hasn't come out of the confusion part after surgery. Bless his sweet heart. Thank you!

Love,

Sarah

Monday, January 21, 2013

Relax Mom!

So I'm working on myself a lot. One major thing I'm working on is just RELAXING! I'm the world's worst about messes, the house being dirty, the schedule not going exactly how I want it every single day. No, I'm not afraid to admit it. Ask my husband. He told me Saturday night when I refused to cook dinner because he had destroyed my kitchen all day cleaning his truck. He said "this is you being crazy"...."yes sir it is".

Anyway, I'm working on every aspect of me.

Ruby LOOOVES to draw with MARKERS. I usually make her sit in her high chair to do it. Tonight Jared wanted to workout so I took Ruby to her room. I told Jared "I sure wish I knew she wouldn't write all over the walls or her brand new white table and chairs and I'd let her draw"...

He came up with a great idea. Table cover. So we're making sure she knows she can't run around with the markers. She can only sit at the table with it.

Baby steps people. I can't just quit cold turkey. Hehe.

sidenote: Jared did not want the table ruined either.

Here you go. My husband is a genius. She loved it! Have a good week!

Love,

Sarah

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Beautiful January Day

Well it's been some awesome weather. Exactly the way I like it. Sunny with cold, crisp, fresh air.

Ruby and I went to the park in Farmington with my very good friend Bobbi and her two girls Kylie and Hayley. Then we went to Chick Fil A for lunch and the play place. Ruby's first "play place" experience. She LOVED IT.

I knew it was time to go home when I looked over and she was crying, putting on her shoes. I asked the girls what happened and they said "nothing, she just started crying". So home we went. We both had a good nap and great night.

Monday, January 14, 2013

Happy New Year!

Ok I'm not going to bore you with the details, but I have a confession. I started gfit this morning. Errrrrmagurrrd... It's something I've wanted to do since I first started hearing about it. And now they're in Fayetteville and classes are a mile from my house!!!!

One of my closest friends is on her 5th month and LOOKS. AMAZING. She shared her before and after with just me so I know what it's done for her. Anyway, if any of you know me you know this family needs some positivity. I signed up for it almost two weeks ago so I didn't really have a choice not to do it unless I wanted $100.00 down the drain. This morning was weigh ins, measurements, pictures. Tomorrow the actual workout starts. The trainer who started it seems to be super motivating and encouraging no matter what your story is so this should be perfect. I'll try not to talk about it in every post.

Then this morning Jared says to me "Happy New Year! This is the beginning of 2013 for us.". Just what I needed to hear. I have to say I have the most amazing husband in the entire world. No joke.

Ok and on a Ruby note, she is doing fabulous. I PROMISE to do a Ruby post very soon.

Love,

Sarah

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Katie Couric and The Simple Life

Well the lady drives me slightly crazy but I still find myself recording and watching. After watching yesterday I have never been so happy I did.

It was all about living a simpler life. Less makeup. Less beating yourself up over gaining a few lbs.. Less reading every single magazine that "after 3 minutes in you immediately get down on yourself". Less name brand. More family time. More reading uplifting books. Going to church.

Ok so if any of you who watched know I've added a few things. One lady on there actually went an entire year only doing the things her husband does. No makeup, no shaving, no shopping, no hair products, etc etc..

I could never not shave. Ick. But I am thinking of the things I want to do to live a less stressful and more simple life. I've already taken Facebook out of my life. Now I'm thinking eyeliner? Ha! I know that sounds so petty...but I absolutely hate the crap and barely even know how to wear it.

I don't know what I will do to start. But it brought a lot of things up that I have never even considered being a problem. I don't know if that makes sense to any of you. But it does to me.

Maybe get RID OF ALL THE "STUFF" I don't use that just sits around because I think I "need" it. We'll see....

I will keep you posted on how it's going. Prayers for me and my family please!

Love,

Sarah

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

I'm late posting about Christmas. Sorry! But here it is. Christmas Eve was spent at Jared's Granny's in Mountainburg. That is what we do for Christmas Eve every year. The adults have a Dirty Santa game and the kids draw names. Of course Granny buys for everyone which she should stop but we are also so thankful. Ruby had a blast. She just played her little heart out with the kids. It was so crazy to me that one the kids running up and down the halls and playing in the playroom was mine. This was Jared and I's 10th Christmas together and probably my 7th there. It is so crazy to see the ones who were running up and down the halls have turned into young adults who are more interested in our conversations than the playroom. We came back home that night for the first time in years too. I wanted Santa to visit Ruby here. I don't know what we'll do next year because we were slightly rushed. But it was a great morning. We had fun opening our presents from each other and Santa presents. We then headed to Mom's house. She always makes about six breakfast casseroles that are to die for, waffles, biscuits, and juice. Yum! Then we opened presents there too. Grandpa Rick got to come home for Christmas too so that was awesome. I love Christmas morning at my mom's house. We then did my dad's side of the family at my dad's this year and that was a blast too. SO MUCH FUN. I got this awesome new camera from Santa (Jared) and the battery was finally charged so I was in everyone's faces clicking away. We ate and did presents there too. We always end Christmas at The Inman's for filet mignon and all the fixings. OMG. SO DELICIOUS. I wish I had one right now. Angie always out does herself with food. It's always so relaxing and warm (Gene LOVES the wood stove). I got my pj's on the minute I walked in and just sat. It had started snowing earlier in the day so we had already decided to stay in Alma. We had to trek down to Briana's because Jared had to work via satelite and Gene & Angie do not have wifi. So off we went..... I can not describe how incredibly blessed we are. Our truck was completely loaded down front and back with no room to spare. We could barely even see Ruby in the back seat. God is so good to us but not only because of the material things. I mean hello, did you read the fact that we had FOUR CHRISTMAS'!!!!????? All with family we love so very much and never get enough time with. I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas too. I'm sad it's already gone.